why I started this tribe...

topic posted Sun, January 11, 2004 - 7:39 AM by  Mrs.Orangebo...
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First I want to make it clear that I personaly do not fear aluminum foil nor lint, but I saw this lady on the Maury Povich show who was terribly affraid of them, on that same show there was another woman terrified of pickles 'cause they looked like corpses to her,and the cotton ball lady was on that same show too. Yeah, so it was a little amusing at first, but for only like a second, cuz when I saw these womens' reactions I really felt for them and I could totally relate, cuz the hiperventalation, sweaty palms, and freaking out reaction they had to cotton balls, lint, and pickles is EXACTLY how I've felt about DOLLS my entire life!
Also, last year I got some help with my doll phobia and now I'm able to control myself a bit and not freak out so bad, that's why I think (I KNOW) it helps to talk about ones phobias, even if it is LINT that you fear.
Brian Weiss thinks that ones phobias are linked to a trauma in a past life, who knows, all I know is that I hope one day to be able to walk down the doll isle in a toy store without feeling like the dolls are going to kill me :-/
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Mrs.Orangeboxman
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  • Re: why I started this tribe...

    Sun, January 11, 2004 - 9:28 AM
    my phobia is cleanliness. i hate dirt. i have to clean everything in order to keep myself away from this phobia or i'll freak out. plus germs, and now that im totally sick right now doesnt help either. thats my phobia, OH and CLOWNS! ooo do I hate those things.

    Dj.
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    Wed, May 19, 2004 - 2:32 AM
    GREAT! I love it, I just got the idea that I needed to join a phobia tribe to my tribe stuffer thing thing. Searched, found this one, and *BINGO*, here I am. :)

    So anyways, I have a dislike for large areas filled with a ton of people, that sucks and makes me unhappy. I also dislike having to browse aisles at the grocery store for too long, because it makes me disoriented. Mmm, the food is good though.

    I also have a phobia of looking at imperfect skin. It really bugs me.

    Hmmm. I really liked on the Real World, San Diego show... They had this girl who was terrified of large steel/metal structures that are higher than her head. Specifically, I remember her freaking out incredibly bad around boats that were over her head. She couldn't even watch on out on the bay... And they had to get her to pass between two big boats to get her out onto this sail boat to complete a mission the household had to do. Lol, pretty crazy... They had to cover her head so she couldn't see them.
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      Wed, May 19, 2004 - 7:35 AM
      Jesse: regarding the grocery store browsing and crowded areas, I actually get panic attacks in those situations...I can't remember the last time I was in a Target.

      I actually just started Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for this because it does really suck...and can be very debilitating.

      My other huge phobia is flying.
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        Wed, May 19, 2004 - 11:02 AM
        I only get that when I'm in a toy store in the DOLL aisle!
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          Wed, May 26, 2004 - 7:44 PM
          I am afraid of people, both in the flesh and on the phone. I get phobic over flying, crowds, any animal with more than four legs, and rolling thunder storms.

          I was agoraphobic for six months, but now I can leave the apartment if someone expects me to...like they are waiting outside, or if i have an appointment.

          When I was a kid, my mom found that I would scream bloody murder of she tried to put me in the grass or on the sand at the park, but i guess i grew out of that or something.

          Oh yah, i get panicky over plans changing...i always have to know exactly when and how things are happening...

          okay, the short way of saying all this is that i am a basketcase. but i am seeking a doctor and meds and already have therapist...so hopefully i won't be for too much longer.
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            Wed, May 26, 2004 - 7:47 PM
            I forgot...if a fire alarm goes off I freak...definite panic attack trigger.
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              Thu, May 27, 2004 - 7:28 AM
              I'm with you on the flying and crowd panic. Huge triggers for me, too.

              Have you gone on any SSRI's (like Prozac, Zoloft, Paxil, etc.)?
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                Thu, June 3, 2004 - 8:18 PM
                Yeah, I have tried many meds since I was 15, including the ones you mentioned. I am about to try out Lexipro. God, I hope this one works...none of the others did, and prozac made me zombie-ish.
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                  Thu, June 3, 2004 - 10:18 PM
                  Ooooh..."zombie-ish" sounds good to me, actually!
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                    Wed, June 23, 2004 - 8:50 PM
                    I'm only afraid of snakes. My phobia used to be so bad that I would have to put my feet up on the sofa (and was too afraid to leave the room) if I saw a snake on television.
                    Now, for some strange reason, my fear has subsided. I still don't LIKE snakes, and if I see one on a hike you will still hear me screaming all the way down the canyon...but I am not as phobic. So maybe they can go away?

                    A few years ago, I had some sort of agoraphobia. I couldn't answer the phone, and I hated when people came to the door. Now that is gone too.
                    But I still have a friend who goes into a COMPLETE panic if you knock on the door. It is so sad to be the person standing outside the door, wondering how someone you love can suddenly view you as a threat, and feeling helpless to calm them down.
                    Any suggestions from current sufferers? What feels so scary, and how can I reassure my friend that I am not ***the police***or a monster*** or **an assasin*** or a robber***or a psychopath***or a soliciter**??
                    Help!!! And do some antidepressants actually seem to make phobias worse?? I think I was on zoloft when I was phobic, I can't remember.
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    Wed, October 6, 2004 - 9:29 AM
    i can relate to a lot of these phobias...i have a phobia of not having enough time and i get really affected when someone tries to rush me. i panic and feel claustrophobic and constricted.

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